Chocolate Cake & Lenses: Her Table

Imagine your sexuality as a chocolate cake.

You’ve been handed ideas about what it should look like, what you should want and even how you should experience it. But how much of that actually belongs to you?

Chocolate Cake & Lenses: Her Table is a digital e-book created by psychosexual and relationship therapist Sylvia Anim for Black women to get curious about the lenses that have shaped how they see sex, desire, pleasure and themselves.

Through reflections and questions, you’ll explore what you were taught, what you picked up along the way and what you actually want for yourself now.

Some of the reflections can be completed directly in the e-book. For others, grab a notebook or use the notes on your phone.

There’s no right way to do it. Just make it yours.